Attendees share stories in discussion circles during a recent listening session on police-community relations. (Photo by Jabril Faraj) Rosie Caradine-Lewis’ 16-year-old son had just gotten a brand new car — a gift from his parents for doing well in school. That day in the late 1980s, his father encouraged him to take it around the block near their home on North 12th Street and Capitol Drive. Seconds after leaving, the boy was pulled over. “He didn’t ask him nothing,” said Caradine-Lewis, referring to the officer. “He got out of the car, came straight up to him, my son rolled the window down … he put his gun to his temple and said, ‘Nigger, if you say one word, I will blow your brains out.’ Yes, he said that. And my son said he just stood there shaking, but he didn’t say nothing.” The family reported the incident at the District 5 police station, but Caradine-Lewis said her son was so scared he begged his parents not to file a complaint and rode the city bus to school instead of driving the car. “He left Milwaukee because of that,” she said. Caradine-Lewis’ story was one of many shared by black residents during a recent listening session on police-community relations convened by the Milwaukee County Office on African American Affairs (OAAA). Do you have feedback on Milwaukee NNS's reporting? Take our survey to let us know how we're doing! “I just think it’s needed right now,” said Nate Holton, deputy chief of staff for County Executive Chris Abele. “This is an outlet for folks; it’s also an opportunity to get some input to figure out what we can do to improve the situation.” The event, which was held at the Washington Park Senior Center, was originally scheduled to update community members on the county’s progress in expanding workforce development efforts, but the focus was changed at the last minute after the shootings of two black men — Alton Sterling in Baton Rouge and Philando Castile in Minneapolis — by police the week before. Following those shootings, five Dallas police officers were killed by a gunman and three law enforcement officers are dead in Baton Rouge after a shootout with an African-American ex-Marine. Seth Bratcher (right) looks on while other attendees speak. (Photo by Jabril Faraj) In 2014 Dontre Hamilton, an unarmed black man with a history of mental illness was shot 14 times by a Milwaukee police officer at Red Arrow Park downtown. The officer involved was not indicted, but was fired for not following procedure. Holton said the feedback from the listening session would be used for planning. The discussion, which was facilitated by the Frank Zeidler Center for Public Discussion, will be compiled into a report, without identifying individuals. The Zeidler model encourages people to speak from personal experience and to listen deeply to each other; the organization has also held listening circles between police and residents in Harambee, Metcalfe Park and Amani. About 50 people attended the event, but Harambee resident Vanessa White said many of the accounts were eerily similar, even across generations. According to Jamila Benson, her 19-year-old son, who attended Nicolet High School, often gets pulled over when he’s with friends on Milwaukee’s east side. She said he gets stopped by police almost every time he drives the family’s black Honda; when she gives him her Lexus, he doesn’t have trouble. Benson said after the officers find out he’s “not a bad kid” they let him go without issuing a ticket. She tells him to have his wallet out, so he doesn’t have to reach for it if he gets stopped, and to always have a plan for where he’s going. “I’m worried every time he walks out the door,” Benson said. “He could get pulled over and misunderstood. And, that happens all the time.” Sometimes, he opts to simply stay home. “It’s just stereotyping,” said Seth Bratcher, who is black. “I mean, they (cops) kind of just group us all together and think we’re all the same. Well, then they tell us not to group them together and think they’re all the same.” Bratcher has a clean record but still said it’s “very concerning” dealing with the police, as a black man. He said the incidents around the country frighten him. “It’s to the point where … if I see a police car following me … I’ll turn off the street because just a simple traffic stop could lead to my death.” Lois Redic, a retired 25-year employee of the Milwaukee Public Library, agreed that African-American men are feared and don’t get treated fairly. She said police officers need to be more accountable after controversial shootings. Bratcher said diversity at all levels of the criminal justice system, from prosecutors to juries, could be a step in the right direction.