Grace (Fletcher) Webster (1781–1828) was the first wife of Daniel Webster. She was with him as he started his law career in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, and then sought to improve their lives by settling in Boston on Beacon Hill. Daniel, a successful attorney and statesman, was often away from his family for months at a time. Webster raised her five children, two of whom died in their childhood. She was particularly skilled at hosting both small, intimate dinner parties as well as large dinner receptions, like the one for Gilbert du Motier, Marquis de Lafayette.
Early life
Born on January 16, 1781, at Hopkinton, New Hampshire, Grace was the daughter of Rev. Elijah Fletcher and Rebecca Chamberlain. She had two sisters—Bridget and Rebecca—and a brother Timothy. After Elijah's death, Rebecca married Rev. Christopher Paige.
She was educated in Atkinson, New Hampshire at the Atkinson Academy. She was a schoolteacher in towns near her birthplace, Boscawen and Salisbury. She was very religious, intelligent, and had a calm, dignified composure. While attending a church in Salisbury, Grace met Daniel Webster. She told her sister that she saw someone "who looked like he might be somebody." Daniel and Grace became friends, and they began writing letters to each other by 1804. To court her, Grace required Daniel to join the church. He joined the Salisbury Congregational Church on August 8, 1807. The marriage became imminent after Daniel moved to Portsmouth and he earned sufficient income to support them.
Marriage and children
Grace married Daniel in Salisbury on May 24, 1808, becoming Grace Fletcher Webster. Webster and her husband were said to have "enjoyed an especially affectionate and companionable relationship. After living temporarily in a rented house, the couple moved into a two-story house in Portsmouth until 1813 when the house was burned down. The Webster's house was one of 108 houses and 272 buildings that burned down on December 22, 1813. Daniel was out of town, and Senator Jeremiah Mason's family took in Grace and their children. The Websters suffered financial losses. They had taken a mortgage out on the house, and it was uninsured. Daniel had benefactors who loaned him money occasionally. He became a successful lawyer and representative in the United States House of Representatives.
As Daniel settled into marriage and established his law practice, his poor health from his youth improved and he began to look hearty. Over the course of their marriage, they had five children, Grace (1810–1817), Daniel Fletcher (1813–1862), Julia (1818–1848), Edward (1820–1848), and Charles (1821–1824).
Around 1816, the Websters moved to Boston, where he had friends among the Boston elite and to make a new start after the deaths of close family members in New Hampshire. Daniel set up his law practice and the family moved into a house on Beacon Hill. At that time, they had two children, Grace and Daniel Fletcher (also known as Fletcher Webster). Webster and her husband were in Washington, D.C. when they learned that their daughter was very ill. They returned to Boston in time to be with Grace when she died of tuberculosis on January 23, 1817.
Daniel was often out of town for weeks and months at a time, litigating trials and pleading cases before the United States Supreme Court, writing regularly to stay in touch with his wife. In July 1821, Webster became depressed after the death of her mother. He was away when their son Charles was born. The Websters and two of their children, Julia and Edward, moved to Washington, D.C. in December 1823, as Daniel served as a representative in Congress. Friends in Boston took in Daniel Fletcher and Charles and Webster wrote regularly to Fletcher to let him know that she missed him and was thinking of him, and once to admonish him about his behavior. Webster and her husband spent New Year's Eve at the White House. When in Washington, she left a good impression of being a down-to-earth, attractive woman, of common sense. Webster became acquainted with leading political figures during dinners. She found herself to be impressed with Andrew Jackson after meeting him. Webster, preferring to be at home with her children, did not return to Washington, D.C. the following year. She was missed by Daniel and many people in the capital.