Libanius to Basil.

yourself will judge whether

I have added anything in the way of learning to the young men whom you

have sent.  I hope that this addition, however little it be, will

get the credit of being great, for the sake of your friendship towards

me.  But inasmuch as you give less praise to learning than to

temperance and to a refusal to abandon our souls to dishonourable

pleasures, they have devoted their main attention to this, and have

lived, as indeed they ought, with due recollection of the friend who

sent them hither.

Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers: Series II/Volume VIII/The Letters/Letter 346

So welcome what is your own, and give praise to men who

by their mode of life have done credit both to you and to me.  But

to ask you to be serviceable to them is like asking a father to be

serviceable to his children.

Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers: Series II/Volume VIII/The Letters/Letter 346