Rosemary Millicent Ward, Viscountess Ednam (, 9 August 1893 – 21 July 1930) was a British socialite who served as a nurse in France during the First World War. She almost married Edward, Prince of Wales (later Edward VIII) but his proposal was vetoed by his parents, George V and Queen Mary. In 1919 she married William Ward, Viscount Ednam to become Viscountess Ednam. The Viscountess died on 21 July 1930 in the Meopham air disaster.
Early life
Lady Rosemary Millicent Sutherland-Leveson-Gower was the fourth (and youngest) child of Cromartie Sutherland-Leveson-Gower, 4th Duke of Sutherland and his wife Millicent Leveson-Gower. Born at the family home at Dunrobin Castle in Sutherland on 8 August 1893, the young Lady Rosemary featured in the society pages of newspapers from an early age. A debutante in 1911, her appearances in the society pages increased and she was courted by John Manners, Marquess of Granby. In early 1913 they became engaged but she broke the engagement off while recuperating from appendicitis later the same year.
First World War
With the outbreak of the First World War, Rosemary's life changed. Her mother went to Belgium in early August 1914, having organised her own ambulance unit, but was captured by the Germans when Namur was occupied towards the end of that month. Due to her connections with both the British and German royal families, the Duchess and her staff were repatriated via Holland. After a short rest, the Duchess returned to northern France to reinstate her unit. Rosemary went with her as a Voluntary Aid Detachment (VAD) nurse. After spending most of 1915 in France, she returned to the United Kingdom for rest and to help with fundraising efforts in November 1915. Upon her return to France in 1916, Rosemary's reputation as a nurse increased, and when she returned to the United Kingdom in December, it was commented that she had delayed her leave as "they [the hospital surgeons] couldn't do with her". Her war work was officially recognised with a mention in dispatches in January 1917. Although she continued to serve in France during 1917 and 1918, she spent time in 1918 in the United Kingdom on fundraising efforts. At the end of the war, Rosemary was awarded the Royal Red Cross (2nd class) in the 1919 Birthday Honours.
Relationship with the Prince of Wales
Leveson-Gower and the future Edward VIII had known each other since childhood as the Prince's parents, George V and Queen Mary had often been guest of the Duke of Sutherland. They met again in France during the war as the Prince visited the hospital to see another friend, Rosemary's sister-in-law, Eileen Sutherland-Leveson-Gower, Duchess of Sutherland. In July 1917 the King and Queen accompanied by the Prince visited the hospital and the Prince and Rosemary recommenced their friendship. Over the following weeks they met often and the relationship was only interrupted by the Prince's assignment to the Italian Front. Upon his return he and Rosemary continued to meet. At this time the Prince proposed to Rosemary and while she was at first reluctant to accept she did so as she thought "she could make something of him".
As the heir to the throne, the Prince needed the permission of the King to marry - a requirement of the Royal Marriages Act 1772. While the King and Queen liked Rosemary they vetoed the marriage. The refusal was based on doubts about the Duchess' family, the St Clair-Erskine family, two people in particular. The first Daisy Greville, Countess of Warwick was Rosemary's half-aunt and had been a mistress of Edward VII, the King's father. After his father's death King George had to take legal action against the Countess to prevent publication of the letters from King Edward to her. The other person was Rosemary's uncle James St Clair-Erskine, 5th Earl of Rosslyn. The earl had been married three times and a compulsive gambler who had been made bankrupt. These closeness of these flawed, in the view of the monarchy, characters to Rosemary were enough for permission to be withheld. Once Rosemary was made aware of the King and Queen's views her demeanour was that she had never wanted to marry the Prince of Wales.
The two did remain friends and the Prince of Wales was the godfather of Rosemary's eldest son. After her death in 1930, Thelma Furness (one of the Prince's later mistresses) recalled that on hearing of Rosemary's death the prince cried for the only time that she ever saw and that he was very shocked and upset by the news.